The September 11th terrorist attacks in New York, Washington, D.C., and Pennsylvania will reverberate around the world now … and for generations to come. The traumatic impact unleashed upon innocent individuals and children has overwhelmed our nation.
Most kids were affected by the September 11th attacks in one way or another -- through your parents, school, your friends, or the media.
Some of you will have had parents or loved ones killed in the tragedy. Others of you will know friends whose loved ones have been killed.
Some of you won’t know anyone, or have reactions to the threat or the attack at all. You may feel safe in your homes and communities.
Younger kids in particular, may not understand adult reactions. The profound pain we feel will always be in our hearts, yet we must go on. In an effort to help you cope with this fear, hurt and confusion, we have teamed up with the experts. Together, we hope this information to helps you.
When we talk with each other about tragic events it helps us. While each of us is affected in a different way it is through our caring relationships that we find the support to bear pain and to heal. This event reminds us of how fleeting and precious life is. Talk with the people in your life. As you struggle to make sense of this, it is a good time to think about what you do believe and what is most important in your life.
Seeing these images over and over will not help you make sense of it. The images are horrifying yet we are attracted to them. That’s common. But by seeing this again and again, you distort things.
Young children may even think that there are hundreds of attacks rather than four. If you are watching and your younger siblings are around, turn off the TV. You may be able to handle this, but they will certainly distort things.
Your home and your school are still safe. Steps are being taken to make things even safer.
It’s normal for your mind to take "unbelievable" events and go over them again and again. This may include images from this event popping into your head or dreams or things like the sound of an airplane causing you to think about this again. Over time, this will get better.
Even though you may be far away from this event, don’t be surprised if you have very strong feelings about it.
Watching this on TV and having everyone talk about it makes it feel closer. It was a horrible thing. And you may find yourself overcome with sadness, fear, confusion and anger. This is normal. With time, these feelings will get less powerful too.
You may find that out of the blue you are thinking about this and crying. You may have a hard time falling asleep. You may be scared to think of your parent traveling on a plane or working in a public place. One moment you will be fine, the next so sad and another so angry. This emotional roller-coaster can be exhausting and you will find yourself feeling tired and having trouble concentrating. For most of us, this will pass.
Don’t let the hate that led to this terrorism spread. Do not lump all people of a certain ethnicity or religion into the same group. This was the work of a small group of hateful people. Blame them, not some kid in your class who is different from you.
Sometimes these things can be too much. If you find that your emotions are too strong, tell some adult you trust. Don’t be afraid to reach out for help.
Use your time constructively.
Here are some examples of things you can do:
If you still find this too overwhelming and too difficult – tell your parents, a school
counselor, any trusted adult --- that you need help!
Some of the information contained on this page was reprinted
with the permission of The ChildTrauma Academy.
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